Rent-a-Friend: A Look at Japan’s “Companion” Services

In Japan, a unique phenomenon has emerged: people can pay to temporarily “rent” a friend or a girlfriend. It’s important to clarify that these services are generally non-sexual, although users’ motivations can vary widely.

What exactly is this service?

Various companies offer rentable individuals who can fulfill different social roles. This could be a friend to go out with, a partner to accompany someone to an event, offer comfort, or even play the role of a family member. Fees are typically hourly and depend on the rented person’s experience and the requested activities.

Why do people use these services?

There can be many reasons:

• Loneliness: Seeking companionship to alleviate solitude.
• Social Events: Wanting a companion for weddings or parties.
• Practice: Shy individuals can practice social interactions in a “safe” environment.
• Comfort: Emotional support during difficult times.
• Tourism: Hiring a local guide.
• Interesting Experience: Simple curiosity.

Important Considerations and Criticisms:

Most agencies emphasize that their services are non-sexual, but boundaries can sometimes blur. Ethical and emotional questions arise regarding artificial intimacy, and some view the phenomenon as a symptom of social isolation in modern society.

Prices (approximate):

• Hourly Rate: Starting around 6,000 Japanese Yen (minimum 2 hours).
• Nominal Fee (Choice): Approx. 2,000 Yen (first choice may be free).
• Administration Fee: Approx. 500 Yen.
• Travel Expenses: Starting from approx. 3,000 Yen upwards.
• Special Requests (examples):
  • Holding hands/arms: Approx. 5,000 Yen/day.
  • Car outing: Approx. 5,000 Yen/day.
  • Joint activities (e.g., Ferris wheel): Approx. 3,000 Yen/occasion.
  • Homemade lunch: Approx. 5,000 Yen/occasion.
  • Wearing Yukata: Approx. 3,000 Yen/occasion.
  • Bathing (not together): Approx. 5,000 Yen/occasion (min. 3 hours).
  • Beach/pool: Approx. 5,000 Yen/occasion (min. 3 hours).
  • Joint photos: From 2,000 Yen.
  • Clothing specification: 3,000 – 5,000 Yen/occasion.
  • Christmas surcharge: Approx. 3,000 Yen/day.
• Monthly “Exclusive Contract”: Starting from approx. 300,000 Yen (depending on weekly hours).

Overall, “rent-a-friend” is an interesting yet controversial phenomenon in Japan that attempts to address social needs.

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